TANTRA TOTEM

The Following is a Chinese GOOD LUCK tantra totem....
You may not believe but the advice is GREAT!!!

Read all the way down, you might learn something:

ONE
Give people more than they expect and do it cheerfully.

TWO
Marry a man/woman you love to talk to.
As you get older, their conversational skills will be as important as any other.

THREE
Don't believe all you hear, spend all you have or sleep all you want.

FOUR
When you say, "I LOVE YOU", mean it.

FIVE
When you say, "I'M SORRY", look the person in the eye.

SIX
Be engaged at least six months before you get married.

SEVEN
Believe in love at first sight.

EIGHT
Never laugh at anyone's dreams.
People who don't have dreams, don't have much.

NINE
Love deeply and passionately.
You might get hurt but it's the only way to live life completely.

TEN
In disagreements, fight FAIRLY.
Please no name calling.

ELEVEN
Don't judge people by their relatives.

TWELVE
Talk slowly but think quickly.

THIRTEEN
When someone asks you a question you don't want to answer, smile and ask, "Why do you want to know?"

FOURTEEN
Remember that GREAT LOVE and GREAT ACHIEVEMENTS involve GREAT RISK.

FIFTEEN
Say thank you in small things you receive or achieve.

SIXTEEN
When you lose, don't lose the lesson.

SEVENTEEN
Remember the 3 R's:
Respect for self;
Respect for others;
Responsibility for all your actions.

EIGHTEEN
Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship.

NINETEEN
When you realize you've made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it.

TWENTY
Smile when picking up the phone.
The caller will hear it in your voice.

TWENTY ONE
Spend some time alone.

TWENTY TWO
Believe in your first instinct.

TWENTY THREE
BELIEVE IN YOURSElF!